I don't get it why peole still like all the high school dramas that actually change people to become a bitch. Sorry to say but can you not talk about you being the center of attention? Its unattractive my dear. Its good that you dont give shit about what people talk about you, but dont make it worse by downgrading the person. Its like you're exactly the same as her.
Anyway, this topic has made me realized the fact that "budi bahasa" shows the best side of you. I come from a long line of somebody important way back then. I am the 5th or the 6th generation of Tok Jabbar. I can't remember which is which. This is from my mother's blood line. So, Tok Jabbar is the Datuk Menteri Adat Istiadat of Johor.
Ever since I was little, my mom keeps on saying "jaga nama mak and abah". Now I fully understand why. Because of Tok Jabbar, my family has the need to always be in the best state of etiquette there is. How we eat, how we speak, how we walk, how we dress, how we bring ourselves takes into account in our daily lives. I have ignored this for quite some time. So now, I'm definitely trying to change myself not to embarass the family name. All the littlest things like keeping your fingernails short, eat with your mouth closed, and speak like someone who is educated, they matter. So, I know I curse a LOT but I'll try to reduce. =)
And when thinking of marriage, I would always think of what type of a woman that my future parents in law would want their son to marry. Not what my husband would want me to be. Pelik kan? Anyway, that is why girls have to grow up and be a woman. Woman means a lot of things. One thing's for sure, please please please think before you speak. Dont say irrational things. Dont act like a child.
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