I know how much it hurts to be cheated on. Mine is worse than yours. It's not the plain old (guy going out with another girl), but its the one where you never expect the guy to be having s** with the girl. So, imagine the state I was in at that time. My roommates in uia knows how every single night, i never failed to cry. And i turned to something else, and honestly, my life changed just like that.
Surprisingly, it took me just a few weeks to get over him. It's not that I don't really love him. I did. Ask my friends. People know how much I was willing to sacrifice for him. But, it doesnt change the fact that he cheated on me. I dont base the break up on that fact alone. I start to think back of the things he did that hurt me, and I found all the small lies, my HUGE sacrifices which meant nothing to him and I realized, I'm far better off without him.
So, if you think you can't get over your ex, think again. You can. Believe in yourself. Just think of it as, he's not meant to be with you. Even if you see him with another girl in the near future, don't think that he's going to play her like he did you, just wish him the best because who knows, maybe the girl that he's falling for is someone who was hurt just the way you were. Don't you want her to be happy? I bet you do.
Just my two cents. =)
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